i am the girl who will be genuinely nice to you when i first meet you. if you're someone important to someone important to me- i will go out of my way to initiate conversation... attempt to befriend you, etc. there's no reason why i can't or shouldn't be pleasant upon the first meeting with someone, right?
but when i do go out of my way to be overly nice and that person isn't nice back.. i get fucking pissed off. usually, it's other girls who act this way. i can think of 3 very specific occassions where i went overly out of my way to be nice to random chicks, to have all of them be bitches back to me in their own special way. and i was so livid. because truly, i don't have to fucking be nice to anyone. especially other females who i owe nothing too. you know? i feel like if i'm nice to you, the least you can do is attempt to be nice back. you can recognize that i don't have to be nice to you. i don't have to be friendly. but i am- so at least attempt to have some respect. and when they don't. i'm done with them.
if i have gone out of my way to be nice, and you shit all over that... you can pretty much assume that i won't be nice to you in the future (if i even acknowledge your existance that is). unless you go out of your way to be nice to me at a later event, or apologize- then we can probably work it out. maybe it was just a bad day. something. i understand that kind of stuff. but otherwise, i get so mad when i'm nice and they're not.
am i the only one who gets like this? do you ever feel like that person should be nicer than nice to you, because you don't have to be nice to them??? they're lucky you're being so friendly when in reality, maybe they're the ones who should be going out of their way to be nice to you?
or maybe i'm just a fucking crazy person? that is definitely always an option.