all i know is that boyfriend (husband) said today... "being married is like getting a job. you want to know that the company you're working for is compatible with your goals.. "
or something like that. something about careers and jobs and a resume. and i think he threw something about salary increases in there. not really. but basically he was trying to imply that you don't go into marriage lightly. you don't propose without knowing that the person you're attempting to be with for the long haul is worth it. you don't ask before you know. and you definitely don't ask when you aren't sure.
all i know is that i can now assume that i am a company. and apparently, boyfriend is an employee. i will now boss him around... write him up when he's bad... and fire him when he gets 3 warnings. that's how companies work, right?