i'm pretty sure that people who do fucked up things would like to believe that their actions have no consequences. i'm also pretty sure that those people convince themselves of that very thing. i'm also fairly certain that those same people tell themselves that what they didn't wasn't fucked up at all, but was just a part of life. *sighs*
in the place where i choose to live.. oh, let's call it reality.. things don't work that way. you do something shitty- you have repercussions. you hurt people, then people hurt. and they don't hurt on your timeline. they don't get over something when you want them to get over it. and you can't pretend that you didn't hurt them at all. you can't act as if they have no right to be hurt. and you also can't sit there and pretend to be the victim, when you don't like how things are turning out.
it's really interesting to me to see how people do this. to watch one completely twist and turn the truth into a reality that is convenient for them. a false reality where they can convince themselves that they are blameless. the scariest part is that they believe it. they believe that they did nothing wrong. they blame you for not getting over it. it's your fault that you're still upset. you are choosing to live in the past, where the hurt still is- while they've moved on.
well of course they moved on- that way they don't have to take any responsibility for what they've done. of course they put it in the past- that way they don't have to confront it, or deal with it.
HOW FUCKING CONVENIENT.
and how fucking cowardly.