Tuesday, February 13, 2007

it's a so cal bridal shower!

so, my southern california bridal shower is this weekend! i know it's early, but if we didn't do it now, we wouldn't have time to do it before the wedding. blake's baseball starts soon and goes until the end of may- so we're showering now!

i.am.so.excited!!! it's a little weird too, because i've been freaking engaged since 2005. two.thousand.five. and i feel like i've been planning this wedding for a billion years- so to do something FOR it, that i'm NOT planning- just seems.. weird? but in like the coolest of weird ways ever! i am super excited to go home and be in southern cali. i miss it. i can't wait to see my family and friends! and to actually feel like a bride to be. i guess that's part of it. while i'm planning and stuff, i guess i don't REALLY feel like a bride. no, that's not entirely true. maybe other people throwing you parties is what makes you feel like a bride?! what the hell is wrong with me?

i hate when i get like this. you know, ramble and contradict myself in each sentence. that's when i should just shut up... but you know i won't. i could tell you about my dream last night. the one where i was 3 hours late to my very first bridal shower. but well, that was pretty much it. ha! okay, shutting up now.. for reals.

13 comments:

Janet a.k.a. "Wonder Mom" said...

That sounds like so much fun...I can't wait to see the 'legal' pictures!!!

Becky said...

LOL youre crazy. i can't wait to hear about it though monday! call me on your drive if you get bored!

alison said...

Can't wait!!!

Kevin Charnas said...

I hate when you get like this too. I should've slapped you the last time I was here.

texas math said...

Is there a difference between a bridal shower and a bachelorette party? If so please explain.

As a follow up, why is there not a "groomal shower" as well?

jennster said...

bridal shower and bachelorette- 2 totally different things. don't ask me why, i don't fucking know.
the bachelorette party is a freaking party- like your bachelor party type of thing. the bridal shower is more for all the women who are invited to the wedding to bring you more gifts?!?! hell, i don't know!

point45 said...

sounds like a double standard....you get to have a party of people gather....and nobody says "bo". but if someone with a penis has a party......unloving looser peice of shit......

jennster said...

bullshit. this is a freaking party in the middle of the afternoon will all sorts of people. it's more like a garden party. it's not a bunch of drunk guys trying to pick up on chicks and going to strip clubs. so shut it.

point45 said...

as she is wearing a firemans jacket.......whooooore

Sarah said...

HAHAHHAHAHH!!! I love it when you guys fight. Funny.

parvenue writer said...

We will all need to see pix, Jenn. Have a blast.

RWA said...

Hope you have a great time!

alison said...

You're right, Hooch, a bridal shower is for ALL of the women attending the wedding---old and young. A bachelorette party is mostly for the bride's friends---a little more rowdy, seedy, perhaps a little inappropriate. You know.