Thursday, December 14, 2006

wait, milf is a bad thing?!?

how come i'm always the last to know?!? none of you ever tell me anything! i didn't even know this was going around blogland and people were upset at being called a milf (or the hot moms club). kristen made a great post here talking about her perspective on the issue. issue? why is being a milf an issue?!

good gravy people- who doesn't want to feel good about themselves? for me, when someone calls me a milf, i laugh. i laugh because it's funny and well, i don't really believe them. but carrying on... why is being hot, or sexy, or feeling good, a bad thing? i take being a mom completely out of the picture because how come it's okay to be hot when you're not a mom? but once you're a mom, you can't be? or is it because the hot mom's club are called just that? hot.moms. and that offends people?

let me tell you something- i'm not as thin as i'd like to be and there are certainly things i'd like to change about how i look physically, but i still think i'm cute! and i think my fabulous personality adds to my cuteness. :) am i hot? eh.. i don't think so, but i sure as shit joined that hot mom's club. why? because i think it's fun! i think some of the women on there are FAR too skinny and i would personally never want to be that thin, but who doesn't want to feel sexy?

i just don't think it's wrong. i don't think being called or considering yourself a milf is something that is setting back feminism billions of years. who cares?!? wouldn't you think that as women- feeling good, feeling sexy, feeling do-able, would be a positive part of feminism? why is being hot, bad?

ah hell, i don't know. but what i do know is, i'm never offended when someone calls me a milf. are you?

31 comments:

Jenn said...

Just the other day Mike said to me while at the store:

"I was walking up the isle and said to myself..ooh look at that MILF. Then realized it was MY MILF. YOU! LOL"

It made me feel good. As it should. People are just too freakin touchy. The people who find that offensive do so, cause they prolly will never be called it. LOL

Seriously, I hate when people get offended for me. If I'm offended I'll let ya know, don't generalize us.

point45 said...

your my fucking milf.

if your offended by someone calling you a milf (maybe the fuck part is offensive?) your an idiot. its a fucking god damn commliment.

it should feel good that men want to bang you;)

Anonymous said...

Listen. Anyone wanna take the time to look and actually tell me I'm anythingILF...Then so be it. And thank you for taking the time to notice.

Anonymous said...

"Mother In Law Fuck!!!!" (she's coming next week!!!) Okay, here's your amusement...besides my first thought, because the thought of the woman coming has been tormenting my every waking moment...what the hell does that mean? I read Kristen's post and all I can get is "Mother I'd Like to Fuck" yes? no? HELP!!! Where have I been?

DDM said...

I'm not offended at being called a MILF. At all. I even blush and say "Aw shucks". :-)

JavaJabber said...

Well, why not? If I look at some guy who is younger than my son (he's 36, so don't get all judgmental on me!), and think "Oh, now there's a guy I could so wrap my legs around," wny not? I'm not dead. I'm menopausal!

Anonymous said...

I have to agree with Boyfriend on this one. Women should take that as a compliment.

Becky said...

nope. i love being called a MILF!

Anonymous said...

It's a compliment, and I would love to have someone say that to me! LOL

(And yes, I've also joined Hot Moms... husband laughs when he sees "Hot Moms Club" on my list of favorites on the computer!)

jeanie said...

haven't found hot moms club, but hey, the moments when I don't feel like I look like sh!t and someone else notices are the better moments in life!

lol - I hadn't even heard the term before, due to not seeing any grown up films for the last 7 years (as a single mother with a child, you don't get to the cinema for your OWN pleasure) - and then I got myself a boyfriend (with all the lurks and perks) and he used it - and I actually don't mind if he does, KWIM?

Anonymous said...

Hell, I did a post about Adam being a DILF, so I had totally better be a MILF. I -want- to be a MILF. And I'm a feminist. Yeah, I know, some people might have trouble wrapping their brains around that one, but I love women for what's on the inside and outside.

Melissa said...

I hate to admit this, but what the hell does MILF mean? But no I don't care what anyone calls me and I want to be what Jennster is. So there. ;)

But seriously....what does it mean?

jennster said...

mom i'd like to fuck! LOL
they started it in AMERICAN PIE, the movie.. i love that movie. lol

alison said...

I'm happy to be called a MILF. I can't understand why any woman wouldn't want to be?? It's a compliment...take it! :)

Anonymous said...

I don't believe anyone's ever called me a milf. If you switched the m to meaning 'man' that would be nice. I'm with you that it's a compliment.

Mommy off the Record said...

I WISH someone would call me a MILF. As I said in a post a few months ago, I'm happy just to get homeless men to whistle at me. I'll take anything I can get.

p.s. you're definitely of the hot mom variety, you MILF you!

Lisa Goldstein/Kelly Kelly said...

I'd be fucking flattered to be a MILF.


Lisa

Anonymous said...

I overheard my daughter's 19yo taekwondo instructor refer to me as a MILF and immediately went to my b/f and asked him what it meant. I smiled for a month after that. Oddly, my b/f was not impressed. Even better, some time later, as part of testing for his blackbelt, the same 19yo had to sing a song of his choice at a ceremony (tradition in our club) and he decided to sing "Brenna's Mom has got it going on...". Oh yeah, I so do. If I can't be a mom and feel hot from time to time, somebody shoot me.

ali said...

i'm hot. and a mom.
that's a bad thing???

Anonymous said...

Brought back Stifler memories. *laughs*

Sizzle said...

i've been called a milf and honestly, i was kind of flattered. who cares if i am not a mom? i'm fuckable!

(oh wait, am i allowed to say that in the comments? i'm new here.)

;) sizzle

Anonymous said...

What exactly was the rationale for starting this again? All of the moms, and even the women who aren't moms, here seem to think MILF is a good thing.

Karl said...

Holy crap, you're a total MILF. Hot mom. Whatever you want to call it. You're a major babe.

CP said...

Shit. I love it when my daughters friends call me that! I take it as a HUGE compliment! I think it's great! People who complain about it are just a bit...well, stupid. *L*

CP.

Mike said...

I love MILF'S!! I'm married to one! Hell, I LOVE WOMEN! I see plenty of women with kids that are hot! You don't stop being pretty just because you have a kid. It should be a compliment.

Women that get offended by this probably aren't MILF's so they're just jealous of hottie's like you!

jen said...

I am so not offended to be called a milf. I can think of alot of worse that I would be offended at though. Plus i'd rather be a "hot mom" than a "non hot mom"
whatever........just because we have kids does not mean that we lose our "hottness"

Mocha said...

Of course I'mnot offeneded. That's why I had it tattooed on my forehead.

Anonymous said...

I want to be a milf....only thing is, my husband is the only man that calls me that shit....what's up with that?

spidey said...

I hope to be a MILF someday. :)

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