becky just reminded me about something else i hate... not strongly dislike, but HATE, so here goes:
#21- cheaters. people who cheat. people who have no respect for other people's relationship and pursue those who are married, engaged, or otherwise NOT available. i hate cheating. i hate cheaters. i hate the whole dishonest, lying, bullshit, backstabbing, idea of it all. now i'm not saying i'm perfect and have never cheated on anyone when i was way younger, because i have. but i learned from it. and then i learned what it was like to be cheated on in return. and ever since, i've had an extremely strong aversion to the entire concept. i dislike everything about it. it tears you apart. it can ruin everything. it can break down every tiny bit of foundation you've built for years in an instant. so yeah. cheating. fucking hate it and everything that goes along with it.
ps- i also realize that there are reasons, choices, etc for why certain things happen and please don't think i'm judging each person in one lump sum. i have a gf who cheated and i know her reasons why she did so and i completely understand them and can see how it got to that point. i don't hate her, or her relationship, or anything like that- it just makes me sad. it breaks my heart for her because i just never want that for anyone. i like everyone to be happy. lol
**read the rest of my 20 things i strongly dislike list below**